Virtual Book Tour: Realizing You by Ron Doades and Susan Sloate

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Meet Robby Aihn, the newest star in the self-help universe and author of the runaway bestseller, Realizing You, now struggling with his first taste of fame. Though his five principles for good living are changing other people’s lives, his own life is starting to fall apart. When Robby stages a lavish self-help conference in Dallas, he attracts others with their own secrets: his estranged wife and unhappy teenage daughter; the businessman pursuing his own agenda; the all-star pitcher facing the end of his career; and the shy co-author Robby never acknowledged, who is searching for meaning in her own life. Join Robby and the others on their journey toward understanding and fulfillment, in this truly novel approach to changing YOUR life.

Enjoy an excerpt:

Sophie was the last one awake. She lay tensely in the queen-size bed next to her mother’s until she heard Marie’s soft, even breathing. Certain that her mother was deeply asleep, she slipped out of bed, tiptoed to her suitcase, and took out the little pink and red bag. Inside nestled a print scarf and a multi-colored beaded bracelet. Both items still bore their price tags. She’d snipped the tag off only the tortoiseshell hair comb so she could wear it today. She took it from the nightstand, looked at all three items, shook out and stroked the glossy material of the scarf, then quietly tucked all of them back in the bag, which she pushed deep into her suitcase. She wouldn’t take them out again until she left Dallas. She’d never wear that stupid hair comb again. She told herself it wasn’t as pretty as she’d thought when she first saw it in the store. The stern little voice inside her head told her that wasn’t the reason.

Sophie refused to allow herself to know what the real reason was.

She hadn’t left Colorado with those items in her suitcase. Her mother didn’t know she had them. She couldn’t explain where she’d gotten them.

But taking them had made her feel better. Everybody did it, at least once or twice. No big deal. She took a deep relaxing breath, thinking about how the act of lifting them from the counter made her feel, and realized she was finally getting drowsy. She crawled into bed, turned over, and was deeply asleep in three minutes.

About the Authors: RON DOADES is president of Ronald Doades & Company, a consulting firm that, since 1977, has helped the people of large and mid-size energy companies improve their individual and corporate performance results by learning from the best-practice experiences of others. A popular speaker on the topic of managing change for optimal results, he holds an MBA from Columbia University and an MS in Psychology from The New School in New York City. Visit him at

SUSAN SLOATE is the author of twenty published books, including STEALING FIRE, a #2 Amazon bestseller and Quarter-Finalist in the 2012 Amazon Breakthrough Novel Award Contest, and FORWARD TO CAMELOT (authored with Kevin Finn), which in its first edition was a #6 Amazon bestseller, took honors in 3 literary competitions and was optioned for film by a Hollywood production company. She lives in Mount Pleasant, SC. Visit her online at

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Thanks for hosting!
Catherine Lee said…
Susan...If you're in Mount Pleasant, you're not too far from me. I'm in Wilmington, NC, just a little up the coast from you. It's been an "interesting" coastal Southern winter, hasn't it? And now they're saying SNOW next Wednesday. WILD!
capefearlibn at gmail dot com
Unknown said…
Judy - Thanks for hosting us. Hope you enjoyed Realizing You--it got lots of great reviews, which you can see on Also, I liked your choice of the book excerpt your posted.
Anonymous said…
Catherine - I've been in Wilmington - lovely city - for an authors' luncheon last spring. You're right; we're pretty close - and though they're not predicting snow here (that I know of), it's hard to believe the freakish weather we've had this winter - we've had several nights below freezing - thank God they're clear - I ALMOST miss the snow boots I left when I moved from Chicago!
Heather Hand said…
This post was interesting cause it really shows you the "those that can't do, teach" idea. You know - the guy out promoting his self-help, fix your life & make it perfect (like mine) has a daughter that shoplifts for thrills.
MomJane said…
Sounds like an interesting concept. I liked the excerpt.
Patrick Siu said…
I'm looking forward to reading the book.
Karen H said…
I really like the concept of this book. Sounds like a very good read.
kareninnc at gmail dot com
ilookfamous said…
A wonderfully original premise for a book!